This is the complete contrary of being selfish, being generous can be appealing as well because it shows that you are not needy and that you are prosperous. BUT! Being bighearted does NOT mean you should give things to people so they like you… this is definitely not attractive. An example of being charitable would be, if you’re with friends, you could buy the pitcher of drinks or some side dishes. This subconsciously transmits that you are in control, dominant and affluent.